1 thought on “amusement: How to negotiate a marriage rationally rather than emotionally”
Novasaid:
This is a great video as expectation and bottom lines can be communicated and accepted or rejected.
So many people marry with stars in their eyes and don’t have the practical things worked out and then wonder why the marriage fails.
There are many things which may come along even if people have a good base from which to work which can stress a marriage, but if both parties know where they stand on finances, children, religion, politics, outlook on life etc then the marriage stands a better chance.
It doesn’t cost much to get married if people don’t spend like it’s the end of the world, but potentially thousands to divorce, and there may be innocent children involved if a couple crash and burn.
This is a great video as expectation and bottom lines can be communicated and accepted or rejected.
So many people marry with stars in their eyes and don’t have the practical things worked out and then wonder why the marriage fails.
There are many things which may come along even if people have a good base from which to work which can stress a marriage, but if both parties know where they stand on finances, children, religion, politics, outlook on life etc then the marriage stands a better chance.
It doesn’t cost much to get married if people don’t spend like it’s the end of the world, but potentially thousands to divorce, and there may be innocent children involved if a couple crash and burn.